Sunday, December 1, 2013

My unique friend Jane


So today while we were having some frozen yougort at metro town this unique girl sits in the table next to us and after thinking about it I saw that she had Down syndrome and I started talking to her. I asked her what Down syndrome really was ? how it affects her ? what were some of the emotional challenges of living with Down syndrome ? And what it felt like to be her ? And this is what Jane said : well Down syndrome is basically when a person has an extra chromosome instead of having 46 I have 47. And  it causes intellectual disability that makes it hard for me to learn things. It affects me in many ways but I try to focus on the positive things but it affects me in ways like my physical appearance I am shorter than most kids in my school and I look a bit different than them I have upward slanted eyes and I speak a bit different than them. I also have to accept the fact that I won't be able to drive I don't like it but I have to accept it.but other than that I am like them in many ways. It just takes me a bit longer to learn things. I am a regular teenage girl . I do regular teenage girl things I like to read , listen to music, horseback ride and swim.  Sure at times it's hard but I always tell myself that having this extra chromosome is what makes me "me". So I try to focus on the possitive things!!  Well some of the emotional challenges of having Down syndrome are having to make people accept you , sometimes people don't like me because I'm a bit different and that really hurts at times that's why I try to express all my emotions by doing things like writing poetry and singing but it's really sad that people always stare and laugh at me just because I look a bit different than them. We'll like I said before I have my challenges but I am just like a regular person I just learn things at a different rate to be me is to be a hard working and thankful person. I have to overcome a lot to be were I am today but working hard is worth it. 

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